Wednesday, March 25, 2009

I just need to vent for a moment...

As some of you may or may not know, I was dating a guy named Mike for the month of february, until our relationship became an endless game of phone tag and then we just stopped talking to each other all together in early march. I assumed he was too busy and stressed out for me, or things just fizzled out on their own. I was also confused by the fact that he asked my roommate for my email address weeks ago and never sent me anything. TURNS OUT, HE BROKE UP WITH ME IN AN EMAIL HE SENT TO THE WRONG ADDRESS TWO WEEKS AGO!!! HE TYPED IN SARA.SUTTON INSTEAD OF SUTTON.SARA! SO WHEN I NEVER RESPONDED (BECAUSE I NEVER RECEIVED IT!) HE ASSUMED I HATED HIM SO HE STOPPED TALKING TO ME. FIRST OF ALL, YOU CANNOT BREAK UP WITH SOMEONE IN AN EMAIL, THAT REQUIRES AT LEAST A PHONE CALL. SECOND, WHAT A FREAKIN' IDIOT DOUCHEBAG! I GOT DUMPED AND DIDN'T EVEN KNOW IT!

(sorry for the excessive caps)


Randall said...

No offense, but sounds like a grade A, immature douchebag to begin with. I wouldn't lose too much sleep over it. If he's not man enough to tell you what he thinks up front, you're better off without him.

I dated a girl for a VERY short time that never wanted to talk on the phone or in person about anything important. It's a way to distance themselves because they're not strong or confident enough in themselves to be able to pursue anything and open up.

Good riddance.

Michael said...

Epic fail on his part.

The only thing that could have been worse would have been a text message breakup.

Look at it this way; at least you aren't in an "Oh no! But he meant the world to me! Boo hoo!" situation. As Randall said, good riddance to bad rubbish.

Waple said...

Kind of reminds me of a certain girl who used to date a certain guy on Smith Ground. This girl would never get into arguments with this guy in person and instead would go back to her room and have said argument over AIM. The technical term for these people is morons, and I echo Randy and Mike's statements.

I hope you took the time you give him a piece of your mind. It's so immature on so many levels (he couldn't even ask you for your email address. He had to ask your roommate? Lame). Sorry you wasted your time and energy on someone so thoughtless. If you want to hang out this weekend, I've got time.

Thom said...

I agree with what everyone's saying here: It's ridiculous, immature, and despicable; be happy it's over.

Also, I wonder what sara.sutton thinks about it all. "I got dumped and I don't even know this guy!"

Danger said...

Sara I have a solution:

We need to have sex.

You can thank me later. After the sex.

jp said...

I declare a writ of "bullshit" here. Be a man and say it out loud, not over an e-mail, cowering behind your computer.

I like that I hang out with all of ya'll...seems like I'm on crazy pills when I talk to or hear about other guys being absolute idiots, but then I can rely on all of you to keep things grounded.

shinysara said...

thank you for all the supportive comments!!! Who needs a boyfriend when I have such wonderful friends!